messing over

verb

present participle of mess over, slang
as in abusing
to inflict physical or emotional harm upon her no-good boyfriend has been messing her over for years

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  1. abusing
  2. bullying
  3. kicking around
Verb
  • But a recent uptick in both national and Chicago area police abusing Flock cameras has heightened residents’ concerns about their privacy, security and whether the technology’s public safety benefits ultimately outweigh its risks.
    — Claire Murphy, Chicago Tribune, 25 Sep. 2026
  • Leo won't get a glimpse of the mosaics by an ex-Jesuit artist accused of abusing women adorning the façade of the Basilica of Our Lady of the Rosary.
    — ABC News, ABC News, 24 Sep. 2026
Definition of abusing
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  • Grande had been the subject of a wave of speculation, concern and bullying regarding her physical appearance following images of the actress-singer going viral in late July.
    — James Hibberd, HollywoodReporter, 30 Sep. 2026
  • But Gresko, who alleges that some of her older children had also experienced bullying at the school, says the school never contacted her.
    — Brian Brant, PEOPLE, 28 Sep. 2026
Definition of bullying
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  • If there had been a Season 2, Uziel was already kicking around some ideas.
    — Michael Schneider, Variety, 10 Sep. 2026
  • The fantasy of a cultural architecture that’s as flexible as culture itself has been kicking around for more than 100 years, and there’s something obscurely disappointing about seeing a technocratic version get put into practice.
    — Justin Davidson, Curbed, 29 July 2026
Definition of kicking around
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